Ladies Only Today

Okay guys....advert your eyes.  This is meant for the ladies. Yeah...go on now.  Back to the ball game or the bar-b-que or whatever.  Out!

Now girls.  I wanna just talk amongst ourselves here.  You see there are times when you just need the opinion of another lady.  I have a lil credit built up to where I can treat myself (and Dear Hubby) to something a lil special.  And since it is not something I get to do too often I wanted to try a lil sexy outfit.  But I need your thoughts on what to get.  I want something that looks good on my plus size body yet has a lil flair to it.  Not all out there in  your face kinda thing ya' know.

I was looking over at EdenFantasys because they have a 70% off sale on lots of items.  And lingerie is on the list.  Also I liked that when I looked at an outfit for a plus size gal it was on a PLUS SIZE GAL!  (Don't you hate it to see it on a skinny mini when it is targeting us full figure gals?)  Anyway here are some I was checking out.  Tell me what you think would be a good idea?

This long all Red Moonlight Magic number had the sex appeal for my full figure without showing it all off.  I liked that there was a lil skin showing but in modest bits.  Lace is always nice especially when it is not completely see through.  At only $25.99 (that I have credit to cover it so no cost to me at all!) it is also a pretty modest price don't you think?


Next I was happy to see pink...my signature color of course.  It is called Wild in Ibiza!  Also listed as a dress but I think I would need leggings if it was worn anywhere at all.  I do not think I could get away with anything that short.  But at home fixing Dear Hubby a nice dinner, then, maybe?  Could see myself serving in this one.  It is a lil more at $45.99 but still I have the credit to cover it too.

And last on the list is a lil costume.  I like the lil ruffle tap shorts under it especially.  Has that flair while also providing coverage.  Plus size gals have to keep it in mind that even though there men do love them just the way they are, we still have to dress up the goods from time to time.  The black and pink is also appealing to me.  Sorta like a dressed up ol west saloon gal in this Bow Bustier with a price tag of  $50.39 on sale.  I would have to get the Garter Ruffle Panties seperate and that might be a lil harder for the plus size gal to find.  But there is a set for $16.49.  So this would be almost $67.00 for the outfit.

Well?  What do you think?  Which would you pick?  #1 in Red, #2 in Pink or #3 in Black?   Help me out.  I want it here by Valentine's Day.

Hot Tub & a Massage

Well I have finally gotten caught up on the majority of the house work around here.  And sure enough a bit tied up in knots too.  My knees ache as does my neck.  So want a nap but almost time for Dear Hubby to come home.  Also the heat of the day has made my room just at nearly tolerable.  I so know I am at home and not doing my 'staycation.

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You see I was in heaven.  A nice air conditioned house at a steady 75 degrees.  A kitchen a chef would feel right at home in.  And oh the hot tub!  No I did not need the heat one with our Texas sun.  In the evening it would be about 85 degrees in the tub.  Turn on the bubble jets and massage jets and soak the pain of the day away.  Ohhhhhh!  Thank goodness our tub was not this crowded!

And better yet, I had some massage oil with me from EdenFantasys.  This weekend after a great time with 6 of us in the hot tub, Dear Hubby treated me to a back and foot rub.  It was total indulgence to say the least.  I am not sure what was better, kneading my tense neck or massaging my lil tootsies.  Now that is what I want in a 'staycation.  When was the last time you had a massage from your better half?  Do you use scented oils?  I love those deep earthy scents the most.  I have always wanted to try the massage oil candles but still a lil nervous.  I like the idea of the Dark Vanilla scent with a massager included like this Knead Me Massage Set.  It is a Jimmyjane's product with a built in pour spout.    Of course I could add in The Book of Massage and make this a great gift to give Dear Hubby on our anniversary that is next month.  Great idea, glad I thought of it.  Seems it would be a win-win situation for both of us. 


I do want to thank EdenFantasys for helping me out.  They have sponsored many of my post.   I think I might use my credits that are built up so I can order this for our anniversary gift. 

Getting Hip in the Bedroom

Well I have figured out some of how to help my sleeping around issues.  First off, do my best to stay in one place to sleep.  Have done that for two nights now.  Problem?  Well one night Dear Hubby slept in another bed.  Yeah we both was able to get some sleep but that is not the answer to the problem at all.

I do know that I have figured out that if I can sleep on an incline that I will rest better.  Some acid issues?  Yes.  But also I tend to breath easier and rest better.  I know we could put blocks under the top of our bed but I am not too sure of that.  And Dear Hubby loves to hog pillows so doing the 100 of pillows propping up is not really the answer.  Instead I am going for the sex toy solution.  Really!  Hey I said I have been sleeping around.....well the house here....only!

I ordered the Liberator Hipster to help me out.  Now I am sure it is great for the 'intended' uses.  But I also know that it is firm and wide.  It can handle my weight thus providing me support.  I love the curved design and imagine that it will work well to help me to sleep at an incline while being on my side.  (Just never been one who can sleep on my back.)  I found mine at EdenFantasys and went for the bold hot red color.  Tan would have matched the bedding better but it was sold out.  So guess I will let my inner wild woman come out in the color instead.

This should be arriving next week sometime.  So I will let you know how it works out.  Hey for sleeping purposes.  Any thing else is.....well.....private!  But?  I do want to thank EdenFantasys for helping me out.  They have sponsored many of my post.  With the coupons I received from them I have ordered this for me now.  Pretty sweet!   And this post too will be sponsored by EdenFantasys.  They are kind to give me a chance to order items from them in return for doing a post.  This is the first item I have ordered thus far.  We shall see how it all works out.

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Time to Dress Up the Girls

I am still out of town hanging with my College Girl. And as it always happens, we forgot one thing...well just not enough of one thing. Can you believe it? She needed an extra bra. Well of course no biggie, we went looking. But first we had to find what she wanted. So we looked online. And did we ever find some doozies.

College Girl said this one would hold her over for snack time. I know several lil girls who would want this one too. The Candy Bra.

Ok I think I have almost seen every thing. Have you? Well here is a new one for us shoppers who want to help save the environment. And create a lil environment of our own. I just know it would raise a few eyebrows when I pull this off to convert.



But we really did like all the ones we found at EdenFantasys.  This one would make a great swim suit if it just had the bottoms to go under the lil skirt. 

And we can even have our jewelry built right in.  Actually can see this working with a nice suit dress.  Would be just the right touch of bling.

Sad to say we had to go with form and function.  Just a plain ol everyday bra.  But I know for a fact that College Girl has picked out several online she wants.  Guess it is time for me to shop for something a lil more fun and lil less function.  Gosh they grow up so fast!


I want to say thanks so to EdenFantasys for letting me browse.  And more so for sponsoring this post.  What a joy to shop and dream at the same time.

Burning Up Calories for Love

I told you a few weeks ago that I was hoping to spice up my love life a lil. But that my body is holding me back.  I am always so tired with the weight I have and my aching joints.  So it is time to get serious about doing something about this....or lose my love life.....who wants that?  NOT ME!


So I have been poking around to see what would be good to do.  Well, one of the things is to learn how to cook better lower calorie less fat dishes.  But if they are not tasty no one eats them.  I found out that there is a Eden Cooks community that is meeting this Thursday, 14th online at 8 p.m. Eastern time.  And you can not only find out how to fix Mediterranean fish dish that is easily converted to a pasta dish too. We have all heard how Mediterranean food is better for us. And gosh it is sexy food too, well in my opinion. A $25 gift card will be awarded during the meeting for the winner of a contest where you can guess the lesser known kitchen implement from a series of photos that will be posted. And another will be given to the winner of a trivia contest.  Now this is something I never thought I would find at EdenFantasys, did you?

I think I am also going to look at The Dieter's Guide To Weight Loss Before, During, and After Sex.  Hey that sounds like the fun plan!  Don't it.  HA HA!  Not only do I learn how many calories can be burned up while I am burning up, but some fun ideas on how to get started.   I found out that eating in bed is encouraged.  I think I would take it up with Dear Hubby if we were drinking some wine and eating sushi!  That would be perfect in my book.  And I know that a lil afternoon 'nooner' instead of lunch seems like a great way to burn a few calories too.  If nothing else, Dear Hubby and I will get to laugh and giggle while reading through this book.  And that is a few calories within itself too.

So, how is going with you.  Mid-life and a lil too much in the middle too?  Not really up to snuff on doing the sit ups but wishing there were more push-ups going on?  I know that I am looking at ways to get my love life rev'ed up again.  How are you doing that at your abode?  Are you getting a lil help from an online community?  If not, check out the communities on EdenFantasys.

Now I will tell you that I was lucky to have this book sent to me for review.  And better still EdenFantasys is sponsoring this post.  Gosh with these two on my side I know things will be getting better real soon.  WINK WINK!