Life and Death and All the in between

Nessa thanks for taking care of my blog and all the great friends I have here. I am just popping in and updating as to what is going on. Prayers please as I don't think I can take one more emergency!

Well this morning as you know was harried. What with a visitation and funeral for my Great Uncle. Then popping on the road to get to my girlfriend who is dealing with her own tragic events. It was great to see CG for a quick drive by. She share half her lunch with me for on the road. So sweet. I drove all the way with just one potty break. You should be ever so proud of that. I am! And when I arrived Latin Lady was just finishing up on picking some things out of her sweeties place. We went back and reread the will. To make sure we did know who to call and where she is no longer responsible. You know that her sweetie was very specific in his decisions. Tomorrow morning if he is not responsive still then the discussion of when to go on just massive pain killers and sedation. Then to stop all life support. So hard to do even if you know it was his wish.

We could not find a good address or phone number for the executor of the estate. Looking on line (a fellow blogger at that) we found 3 blogs of different ages. And also 7 different emails. Well finally one of them worked. No idea which one did. But she called us and we started with the info that she needed and catching her up as to what has happened thus far. Then we went out to my car to go have some dinner. And the car would not start!!!! Battery OK but key not working. I called DH and he informed me he dropped the key and key fob in the water about 3 days ago. Well there are computer chips in them and maybe they fried??? So he then finished his second job of the day. And is now on his way to his 200 mile trip here to bring the other key we have. Praying that is all that is wrong. DH also found our youngest kitty, Tom Kitty, had been hit by a car tonight. So he had to make arrangements with our housemate as to burial.

I have to say as of right now I am on pins and needles. I am not sure what is going to happen next. And if the past 24 hrs is any indication than it could not be any good. My girlfriend, Latin Lady, is currently trying to curl up and get some rest. I am waiting up for phone calls from DH to make sure he knows where he is going. He has never driven this route before. I am always the one who drives in this metropolis.

Just one big pile of nerves who is trying hard to stay very calm for my girlfriend. She has enough to handle without any extra worries from me.

UPDATE: DH CALLED AND IS GOING TO WAIT TIL TOMORROW AFTER HIS MAIN JOB TO COME. GIVE SECOND JOB NOTICE TO FIND REPLACEMENT. AND DRIVE DURING DAY TIME. THANK GOD.