Broken Heart

I have not been on for a couple of days. And today was not very good at all. I have mentioned a few times on here that I do child care. And that the family is going through horrible times now. A divorce will happen and the fighting is non-stop. Well today the children were taken away from me. This was not because I have a not cared for them. Nor that one parent or the other is moving from the area. It was not because the children have good care, good food, lots of love and enjoy being here. It is only because they are mad at each other. And can now use me to hurt the other. These children have been here for a year and a half. The mom found me and placed the children here then. She has always been the one who brings them, pays me and provides for their needs here. Dad has the kids right now so he pulled them out. This is because it will hurt the mom. There is no concern on how it will effect the kids. What care they have always had. That life is in an up roar and this is a steady place that stays calm. The kids are not being put first at all. And of course I am hurt. I love them. I miss them. I am worried about how these little ones are handling such a change. They have fighting at home every night. Mom is gone then dad is gone. And now as far as they can tell, we have left them too. I just can't handle this right now.

9 comments:

  1. I pray peace for you right now. God will keep the kids safe no matter what is happening around them. Maybe the grownups will come to their senses soon...I hope so.

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  2. Sorry, that really stinks...here is hoping the dad will bring them back...

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  3. So sorry about that, Momma. We've already confirmed that he's being stupid, but I hate that he's taking the kids away.

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  4. Oh, man, it made me so sad and angry to read this. People THE KIDS come FIRST. I'm so sorry, because I can tell you care for these kids and are hurting too. :o(

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  5. That is such a shame when the necessity of the parents to get at each other makes it so hard on the kids. They are definitely not thinking about the kids only themselves. All you can do is pray they will come to their senses and realize how they are hurting the kids before it is too late. Will definitely keep them and you in my prayers.

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  6. that is just so sad! thanks for stopping by and saying hello and leaving such a nice comment on my blog.... i'll be back :).

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  7. Thanks for commenting on my blog!

    I'm very sad to read your post...I feel for the kids and know it must be hard for you seeing as how you can't really do much about him not bringin them. Divorce is horrible, especially when kids are involved...but the worst part is the parents not thinking of the kids first. They need their routine of coming to your loving home, since that is their "safe" constant right now. Poor kiddos...we'll keep them in our prayers and hope that you can manage okay too.

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  8. That's just sad and wrong. I can't even begin to imagine a "grown-up" using the kids like that. They'll be in my prayers for sure!

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